Try to notice where you are, your surroundings including the people, the sounds like the t.v. or radio.
Concentrate on your breathing. Take a deep cleansing breath from your diaphragm.
Count the breaths as you exhale. Make sure you breath slowly so you don't hyperventilate.
Mentally remind yourself that the memory was then, and it is over. Give yourself
permission to not think about it right now.
Hold something that you find comforting, for some it may be a stuffed animal
or a blanket. Notice how it feels in your hands. Is it hard or soft?
During a non-crisis time make a list of positive affirmations. Print them out
and keep them handy for when you are having a flashback. During a flashback read the list out loud.
Call someone. Go online and talk with an online friend. Write an email.
Imagine yourself in a safe place. Feel the safety and know it.